Wellness Center


Relationships & Social Support


Parents — Want to Keep Your Kids from Smoking?

No parent wants his or her child to start smoking. But thousands of young people start every day. What should parents know, and what should they do?

  • Kids learn to smoke by watching others  friends, older kids, and adults.

  • Young people are most vulnerable to peer pressure in the sixth through eighth grades.

  • Parents who smoke are much more likely to have kids who smoke.

  • Tobacco advertising makes smoking look glamorous and cool.

Addiction

Addiction to nicotine happens rapidly  which is why any experimentation is serious. Parents should not tolerate any experimentation.

  • Addiction means no longer being in complete control of smoking behavior.

  • Typically, kids who experiment with smoking are addicted within the first two months.

  • More than 90 percent of all smokers started before they were 18.

What You Can Do to Help

  • If you smoke, seriously consider stopping. It can be hard to do, but it will benefit you and your child.

  • Don't allow smoking in your house or car. This protects others from secondhand smoke and sends a message that you are serious.

  • If you smoke, keep cigarettes out of sight or reach.

  • Start talking about not smoking when kids are very young.

  • Discuss what addiction is and the health risks that smokers face.

  • Set rules about TV and movie watching, and don't let them watch shows that glamorize smoking.

  • Discuss tobacco advertising and how it targets young people.

  • Use your parental influence to discourage friendships your kids have with other kids who smoke.

When Kids Do Smoke

Smoking can be a life or death decision. Do whatever is necessary to get your child to quit.

  • Strongly discuss why you want them to quit.

  • Tell them how upset you are.

  • Take them to see their doctor.

  • Confiscate cigarettes whenever they appear in the house or car.

  • Seek help through a smoking cessation program or telephone quit-line.

  • Reward them for quitting.

  • Take away privileges (TV, driving, dating) when you catch them smoking.

Work with the Community

  • Encourage the schools to enforce tobacco-free school policies.

  • Contact your local health department and police to let them know you support laws prohibiting tobacco sales to underage kids.

  • Talk to neighborhood store owners, and encourage them to NOT display cigarette ads.

  • Support local ordinances banning smoking in public places Learn more about helping your child quit smoking from the American Cancer Society.

Source:

1. Important facts for parents who don't want their kids to smoke. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians. American Cancer Society.

Written by: Larry Axmaker, EdD, PhD
Date Published: April 08,2003 Date Reviewed: June 26,2008
Disclaimer:

This information is provided for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice or diagnosis of specific medical conditions. You should seek prompt professional medical attention if you have a particular concern about your health or specific symptoms. Wellsource, Inc. is not liable for any health consequences resulting from your use of this site.

 

© 2007 Wellsource, Inc.