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Helping Your Kids Be Smoke-free

Few parents want their children to start smoking. But thousands of young people start every day. What should parents know, and what can they do?

  • Kids learn to smoke by watching others friends, older kids, and adults.
  • Young people are most vulnerable to peer pressure in the 6th through 8th grades.
  • Parents who smoke are much more likely to have kids who smoke.
  • Tobacco advertising makes smoking look glamorous and cool.

Addiction

Addiction to nicotine happens rapidly  which is why any experimentation is serious. Parents should not tolerate any experimentation.

  • Addiction means no longer being in complete control of smoking behavior.
  • Typically, kids who experiment with smoking are addicted within the first two months.
  • More than 90 percent of all smokers started before they were 18.

What You Can Do to Help

  • If you smoke, seriously consider stopping. It can be hard to do, but it will benefit you and your child.
  • Don't allow smoking in your house or car. This protects others from secondhand smoke and sends a message that you are serious.
  • If you smoke, keep cigarettes out of sight or reach.
  • Start talking about not smoking when kids are very young.
  • Discuss what addiction is and the health risks that smokers face.
  • Set rules about TV and movie watching, and don't let them watch shows that glamorize smoking.
  • Discuss tobacco advertising and how it targets young people.
  • Use your parental influence to discourage friendships your kids have with other kids who smoke.

When Kids Do Smoke

Smoking can be a life-or-death decision. Do whatever is necessary to get your child to quit.

  • Strongly discuss why you want them to quit.
  • Tell them how upset you are.
  • Take them to see their doctor.
  • Confiscate cigarettes whenever they appear in the house or car.
  • Seek help through a smoking cessation program or telephone quit-line.
  • Reward them for quitting.
  • Take away privileges (TV, driving, dating) when you catch them smoking.

Work with the Community

  • Encourage the schools to enforce tobacco-free school policies.
  • Contact your local health department and police to let them know you support laws prohibiting tobacco sales to underage kids.
  • Talk to neighborhood store owners, and encourage them to NOT display cigarette ads.
  • Learn more about helping your child quit smoking from the American Cancer Society.

Source:

1. Important facts for parents who don't want their kids to smoke. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians. American Cancer Society.

Written by: Larry Axmaker, EdD, PhD
Date Published: April 08,2003 Date Reviewed: June 10,2011
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