"People with genital herpes can and do have healthy, satisfying relationships – both emotionally and physically," says popular sex adviser Dr. Ruth Westheimer. "Be brave, and have the potentially difficult discussions needed to get you and your partner to a place of emotional and physical closeness." Sexual intimacy is an important part of a relationship, and having an STD (sexually transmitted disease) doesn't mean it has to end.
About Genital Herpes
Experts estimate that up to 60 million Americans have the virus that causes genital herpes, and the CDC estimates that about 1 million people are infected each year. However, as many as 9 out of 10 of those infected are unaware they have genital herpes and might only have a mild initial outbreak without recognizing recurring symptoms of the disease.
Symptoms of genital herpes include painful or itchy clusters of blisters, bumps, and rashes in the genital area, or on the thighs or buttocks. Many people confuse genital herpes symptoms with other conditions such as urinary tract infections, ingrown hair, jock itch, zipper burn, allergic reactions, vaginal infections, a cut or a scratch, or irritation from sexual intercourse or tight jeans. Although the disease is most contagious during an outbreak, it can also be contagious between outbreaks when no signs and symptoms are present.
Dealing with the emotional aspects of a diagnosis is just as important as coping with the physical aspects, according to Dr. Ruth. Specifically, Dr. Ruth has four tips for living with genital herpes:
1. Talk to your doctor: Get the key facts on herpes, including symptoms, treatment options, and safer sex practices, including the use of condoms.
2. Seek support: Talking with an understanding partner, friend, or family member can help reduce your anxiety and stress.
3. Keep relationships strong: Even with herpes, you can still maintain normal, satisfying relationships, both emotionally and physically.
4. Maintain a positive attitude: Once you learn how to manage your herpes, it's a lot easier to get on with life.
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